Yated Shidduch Forum 3/23/18: Proper Nomenclature for Single Men & Women in Shidduchim
Question: I would like to start by thanking you for your very informative advice and guidance. There is one thing that does irk me slightly, but it is not exclusive to this forum. Why is it that the young men and women who are making the biggest decisions of their lives are constantly referred to […]
March 19: Insight & Inspiration; Q&A with Rabbi Menachem & Rebbetzin Goldberger for single women ages 25 and above
Yated Shidduch Forum 3/16/18: How Important is Emotional Connection?
Question: Recently, I went out with a boy seven times and everything was amazing — on paper. He had good middos, we came from similar backgrounds and hashkafos, he was pleasant-looking, and conversation flowed nicely. But I had no feelings for him. He was nice, and when we were together, I had a nice time, but I […]
Yated Shidduch Forum 3/9/18: Is it Possible to Change Someone’s Mind About a Shidduch?
Question: As shadchanim, you surely know that most ideas that are suggested don’t result in an engagement or even a date. When I redd shidduchim, I understand that parents know what their children need and I accept their negative response. Sometimes, though, I wonder if the shadchan should get more involved when a shidduch is nixed for petty reasons. I have […]
March 6 – Clarity, Competence and Confidence: A 3 Step Guide to Dating More Successfully
Yated Shidduch Forum 3/2/18: Bechira, Hishtadlus, & Hashgacha – A Complementary Trio?
Question: My daughter was recently redd a shidduch to a phenomenal Litvishe boy and we are ready to give a yes. The boy’s father, however, drives a Volkswagen, a well know German car. We have a strong sensitivity to that, since our grandparents’ family perished in the Holocaust. Is that enough of a reason to negate the shidduch? Does it make a […]