Yated Shidduch Forum 8/16/19: Dating Someone Who Has Divorced Parents
Question:
As a bochur in shidduchim, from time to time I get redd girls whose parents are divorced. I wish to know what my parents can ask when finding out information about the girl and what I can discuss with the girl on a date that can determine whether she has a healthy perspective and understanding of a relationship and a marriage.
Can the answer to this question also be applicable to a girl whose parent(s) passed away?
(Although it may not be my place to offer my opinion, as I’m sure everyone’s situation in life is very different, I strongly believe that every boy and girl from a divorced home should be given a fair chance to be looked into, without being thrown under the bus the second the divorce info is seen on the résumé.)
Your insight is appreciated.