Yated Shidduch Forum 5/13/22: Are People Too Negative When They Speak About Shidduchim?
Question:
One of the most unfortunate lines that I keep hearing from parents of boys and girls alike is, “We can’t wait to be out of shidduchim,” or, “I feel such a load off my shoulders in between my children who are dating.” Is there any way to spin the process into a lighter, more positive experience for all as we remind ourselves daily that it is a brocha to have dating children and iy”H bring them to the chupah, instead of an overwhelming burdensome parsha?