Yated Shidduch Forum 8/26/22: We Have Car Troubles. Can I Ask the Woman I am Dating To Borrow Her Car Instead?
Question:
I recently had the following dilemma. Our family car was not drivable and we needed a car for my date. Would it have been appropriate to have the shadchan ask the girl’s side if we can use her car for the date? Or should I just have spent the money and rented a car? [At that point, we didn’t know how long we’d be car-less.]
Yated Shidduch Forum 8/12/22: How to Handle Shidduch Research Calls from Anonymous Calls?
Question:
I have a follow-up to the question from a few weeks ago about serving as a shidduch reference.
Recently, quite a few times, I got calls about singles from people, but they refused to provide their name or their relationship to the shidduch (meaning if it’s for their son, daughter, or some other relative).
Am I obligated or expected to provide shidduch information to people who don’t want to identify themselves? Am I doing a disservice to the singles in question if I insist on the people revealing their identities (in which case I really don’t know if the names and info they give me are genuine anyway)? Or am I just being too paranoid?
Yated Shidduch Forum 8/5/22: When Should I Introduce My Prospective Kallah, Bez’H, to My Grandparents?
Question:
What is the protocol regarding when to tell grandparents of a pending engagement? Also, is there an inyan for a chosson to take his potential kallah to visit the grandparents – and if yes, when?
Meet The Shadchan 8/3/22
Event for Single Women Ages 24 and Under